when you blend in, you look like everybody else. When you go in there into the interview and you say all the same things that everybody else is saying, you answer all the questions in the same corporate way that everybody else is doing it.
Have you ever interviewed for a job and you didn't get it? Yeah, welcome to the club. A lot of people have; including me. Let's face it; getting hired for a job is not easy. If that was, everybody have a job. But some people seem to be better at interviewing and getting hired for jobs than others.